6 Ways to Ruin a Relationship

1- Checking into their massages and e-mails. Some have steamed open their mates mail.
2- Lying.The rock solid foundation of any good relationship is telling the truth. If you are caught in a lie, you'll lose credibility and no relationship can survive loss of trust.
3- Snooping. Checking into their drawers, looking at their records, their diary, their wallet, etc.
4- Become a private investigator. Trying to catch them"in the act."Following them to their place of work, their gym, their home( if you live apart), to see if they arrive or leave with an attractive stranger. If you get caught spying, they no longer will trust you. Is it worth the risk?
5- Sending others to check them out. A person your mate doesn't know can snoop undetected. Listening to them in a public place like a bar or restaurant.That person then has "something" on you. It's like sharing a secret. The only safe secret is one only you know.
6- Constantly checking up on them with paranoid or obsessive behavior. Calling regularly to "check in" is fine but calling incessantly will drive them away. It's controlling and lacking in trust.

No matter how much love exists in your relationship, it cannot survive without trust.