5 Best Ways to Pick Someone Up at a Party

1- Hang out at the food or drink table because that's where most people congregate.
2-See every person not necessary as a future spouse, or lover, or even a date, but as a networking connection.
3- Initiate conversation. Just hay Hi. Smile. Remember seemingly dull people may just be shy.
4- Find common ground to talk about. Who invited them to the party, whom do they know, who brought them, discuss people you both have in common.
5- Talk mostly about them, not yourself. It's a great way to get to know them and protects you from dominating the conversation or bragging.