The Perfect First Date

1) For first time, it's O.K. to meet for drink
2) Call day before to confirm time and place
3) Leave phone numbers for emergency change of plans
4) Clue her in on what to wear if place is surprise.
5) Listen and wait to respond. Don't interrupt.
6) Tell her how good she looks.
7) Have white teeth, fresh breath, great shoes, cell off.
8) Don't ask about favorite music, it's boring and everybody asks.
9) Tip well...she's watching
10) Read her body language before you make a move.
11) Wait a minute til' she gets into her house.
12) Keep up interest and momentum in discussions
13) NEVER check out another woman when you are on a
date. If you're caught, you're done.

8 Ways to Know If Your Date (HE) Is A Keeper

1) Does he have goals and dreams for the future and is
he committed to them?
2) Does he have good health and habits?
3) Is he stable? Is he balanced emotionally? Any rage?
4) Does he treat you well? Is there RESPECT?
5) Does he treat others well? Waiters? Animals?
6) Healthy relationship track record? Long term?
7) Maturity level? Watchs video games? lots of TV?
8) Family relationship? Do they like/love each other?

Five Reasons Men Leave or Have a Need To Cheat

Men leave or cheat for various reasons. These are the
major ones. Unfortunately, almost all of them are out
of your control. However, you can mitigate (stop or
diffuse) the effects of these situations by being a
caring, attentive, loving, girlfriend or wife. You
must make him feel he is vital and important. Keep the
lines of communication open and if you have a
disagreement....fight fairly. If you want your man to
treat you like a QUEEN, you must treat HIM like a
KING.
1) Power or newfound wealth...It suddenly makes him
feel a powerful invincibility and if it doesn't
translate into the same feelings at home he'll seek
other understanding appreciative partners.
2) Sudden change in status...this means that he'll be
facing new circumstances, challenges and
opportunities. He'll really need some kindred spirit
to talk to. If you're not available, he looks around.
3)Family Dynamics... I had a friend that left his wife
and family and when I asked why he said "I'm #7
My wife comes first then the four teen age daughters,
then the dog, then me. I feel that I just don't
matter.
4)Unexpected non-financial ego trip..Compliment from
co-worker, wink from stranger, business contact that
get "friendly" all make him feel desired.
5)Internet "Safety"....actually not really safe, but
provides a cover for a bored flirt who is looking to
meet someone and get "lucky"

11 Ways To Approach ANY Woman

I've spoken to many beautiful women who have a boring social life. One of the reasons is that most men are intimidated by their beauty and they meet very few fun, attractive, self-confident men. Go for it!

1) When you first make eye contact...SMILE
2) Observe something she is doing and comment on it
3) Do not hesitate, look confident, don't stalk
4) Have positive body language, stand straight
5) Don't walk over to her too fast. Be cool and calm
6) Maintain eye contact
7) Say Hi and listen to what she says, respond accordingly, or ask an appropriate question about where you are.
8) Do not fidget
9) Modulate your tone of voice.
10) Don't crowd her, lean away, don't be a threat
11) Let the conversation flow and see where it goes

How To Read a Womans Body Language

Many women who are physically attracted to a man will not approach
him; call it being shy or old-fashioned or lady-like or coy. Here is a brief primer for men to start to learn how to read a womans "tells". They are the messages that a persons body sends out and only very few can read these hints well. The best Poker players can read body language, so will you. Hips don't lie!

1) Her eyes are wide open and pupils enlarged
2) When you speak, she leans in towards you.
3) She plays with or touches her hair
4) She licks her lips and applies lipstick frequently.
5) She might lean across table & glance (stare) at you
6) Will touch you; your hand, arm, shoulder casually
7) When she speaks, she will touch her leg or face
imagining it was you touching her.
8) Will face you and close the gap, watch those hips!

Welcome to STOP HATING DATING!

Welcome to a new BLOG that will help you to finally
STOP HATING DATING

Our primary objective is our dedication to helping you
and other single people enjoy your life while we help
you find and KEEP your Soul mate. Our secondary goal
is to provide a forum where we can share beneficial
information about dating. Our final goal is to provide
wise practical solutions and great laughs.
So flex your fingers, crack your knuckles, put on your
thinking cap and submit YOUR comments.
Ask us questions, offer helpful advice, and share your
"Dates from Hell".