Monday, June 30, 2008

More Do's and Don'ts for Online Dating

1- Be choosy about which Dating sites you select. Use the ones that specialize in compatibility matches and shared interests.
2- Safety first. When you agree to meet for the first time, don't let him pick you up at home. If the date doesn't workout for you and his is, at best annoying you, and at worst, a stalker you don't want him to know where you live. Choose a popular, well-lit place, drive there yourself or have a friend take you. It's important for a friend or loved one to know who you are meeting, in addition to where and when. About a half-hour into the date, have your friend call your cell. If all is O.K. say sorry wrong number. If you want to get out of there, listen for a while, say "Oh, no" and tell him you have to leave immediately for an emergency. Stay sober, and always watch your drink. That's right, never let it out of your sight. Nothing can be put into your drink if you're watching.. No matter how well it goes, don't leave with him. Use your intuition.
3- Be careful but don't let fear immobilize you. Just be cautious until your intuition tells you that he is O.K.

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