Have a Pity Party and get over the Break-up

Breaking up is hard to do....Most of us have been shown "the gate" and told it was over. Now we have two choices: Get over it quickly or wallow in self pity for an extended time. What did I do wrong? What should I do differently the next time? Will there be a next time? Stop. Enough.
I suggest having a "Pity Party" with all you closest confidants and have closure. Drink, laugh, cry, reminisce, drink some more and leave it all behind you. It's time to get on with the rest of your life.
You're going to do better in the future . You will meet that someone special and live happily ever after. Well, at least it's the correct attitude to start with.
It's very hard to advise someone without being a fly on the wall during the last relationship, but here's a good guideline to remember. Communicate your needs better the next time, and encourage your partner to do the same. It will make you understand each other better and lessen that feeling of disappointment. It also smooths the path to better intimacy. Good Luck
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