Tuesday, July 8, 2008

Turnoffs that make Goodguys say Goodbye

1- Misleading Internet profile. I don't know anyone who likes a lier. Tell the truth, it will appear.
2- Continually late. I don't know about you, but I think someone who is always late doesn't care enough to respect you. I think it is a character flaw whereby those tardy people are either so incompetent getting their act together on time or they think the world revolves around them.
3- Chatterbox. A conversation should be a dialogue not a monologue. If you can't get a word in edgewise, you're really not needed. Maybe she's nervous, if rest is O.K. a second chance is fine.
4- Marriage bound. She talks about commitment, futures, children, and being together forever way to early in the relationship.
5- Cross examiner. The first date turns into the third degree. She asks detailed, probing, intimate, personal, questions instead of the simple getting to know you ones. Asking about favorite movies, music, viewing and participant sports, hobbies and general information are perfect for the getting to know you date. The heavy ones about politics, religion, former relationships and personal baggage can wait a couple of dates down the road.

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