Love Maximization: Today # 1 Dating Problem

Yesterday The Huffington Post printed an article authored by Karen Salmansohn. I enjoyed reading it and would like to share the essence of it for your information.
Do you feel you are always looking for something better; better job, better place to live and a better relationship? Do you still find yourself checking out Internet dating sites in hopes of finding a bigger, better, more perfect catch? You may just be frustrating yourself.
So what's the cure for this situation that makes us often look for the "greener" grass.
1- Recognize that being a "love maximizer" actually minimizes your chances of finding a healthy happy relationship.
2- Next time you're tempted to two-time, think thrice, reminding yourself that many people look good from faraway and will have many flaws when viewed up close.
3- No one person is ever going to have every single thing you need. Your goal is to find the person that has the most important things that you need. Make a list of the 3 relationship deal breakers and the 3 things your partner must have to make you happy.
4- Once a week, spend a night luxuriating in your partners 3 fantastic must-have's and let it be known how much you appreciate him or her. Soon you'll turn yourself into a love energizer, instead of a love maximizer!