5 Reasons Ultimatums Don't Work

1-He might not have made peace with the decision you pushed him into, ie."marry me or else."

2- He feels uncomfortable doing what you want him to do, ie."Stop talking with your ex."

3- You shouldn't force him into major decisions if he's not ready, ie. " O.K., we're engaged."

4- You can't change someone or have control of their actions unless they want to buy in, ie. O.K. , I'll do what you want, just stop bugging me. All you achieved is a short term temporary win.

5- What if he calls your bluff, are you ready for him to leave. Always consider the worst case scenario.