Sunday, July 6, 2008

5 Signs it was a Great First Date for Him

1- She actually showed up. Many men who have approached women, chatted with them, asked for their number, and set a date have been stood up. It's part of the process.
2- She laughs a lot during the date.
3- She offers to split the bill. Very often first dates are "Dutch" treat especially if nothing is discussed in advance concerning payment. She recognizes there is no such thing as a free meal.
4- She sees her girlfriends and insists they come over to meet you. A very good sign....you've passed the "good enough to be seen with in public test."
5- At the end of the date you reach out to give her a warm hug, she holds your face, pulls you in and gives you a full on kiss on the mouth.

Saturday, July 5, 2008

5 Signs it was a Great First Date for Her

1- She was very excited to go out with him. It really starts out well when he shows up on time, dressed appropriately, well groomed, and with a big smile on his face.

2- He spent time thinking about what to do on the date. He got some likes and dislikes from her up front and planned accordingly.

3- He picks up the check without hesitation.

4- He maintains eye contact throughout the date. No looking around the room glancing at others.

5- You both can't wait to see each other again.

Friday, July 4, 2008

3 Best First Date Tips Turns into 16 Suggestions

1- Be Yourself. Have the attitude that there are many fish in the sea and this is just a date. Relax

2- Dress appropriatly. Be neat and well groomed. Ask open ended questions about your date. No politics or religion discussions on the first date. No crass humor.

3- Don't try too hard to impress. Always tell the truth. Be the real you. Try to make your date comfortable, keep eye contact, listen and pay attention. Don't interrupt. Enjoy the time together.